{"id":142660,"date":"2023-10-09T17:53:56","date_gmt":"2023-10-09T17:53:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/theprojectsworld.com\/?p=142660"},"modified":"2023-10-09T17:53:56","modified_gmt":"2023-10-09T17:53:56","slug":"an-online-date-ghosted-me-so-i-contacted-his-boss-to-get-revenge-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theprojectsworld.com\/lifestyle\/an-online-date-ghosted-me-so-i-contacted-his-boss-to-get-revenge-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"An online date ghosted me, so I contacted his boss to get revenge | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"
DEAR DEIDRE: I GOT my revenge on someone who ghosted me \u2013 by emailing his employer and telling him a few truths.<\/p>\n
Guys constantly let me down. I met this man through Grindr. He kept telling me how wonderful I was and we should meet.<\/p>\n
I arranged to catch a train to visit him. The day before, he texted saying his grandmother had died. I was annoyed but I understood.\u00a0<\/p>\n
We tried again a month later but he cancelled again, saying he had Covid.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m a guy of 32 and he\u2019s 37. I live with mild autism and I felt he was taking me for a mug, so I emailed the managing director where he works and told him his employee was nasty and unreliable.<\/p>\n
He\u2019s just called me, swearing down the phone at me saying I\u2019d caused him acute embarrassment. But he\u2019s really messed me around and I want him to learn.<\/p>\n
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DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>Contacting his boss was below the belt. His private life has no bearing on whether he can do his job. I\u2019m not surprised he was upset at your behaviour.<\/p>\n Perhaps he isn\u2019t out yet, or maybe he was nervous. His excuses could even have been genuine.<\/p>\n Online dating can get really intense so if it\u2019s getting you down, take a proper break from it while you recalibrate.\u00a0<\/p>\n When you\u2019re ready to date again, try to manage your expectations and resist punishing others if you are let down.<\/p>\n My support pack Love Online will help.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\nMORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE<\/h2>\n
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