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<\/p>\nFor contestants on The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, everything leads up to the highly coveted Fantasy Suite dates.<\/p>\n
After weeks of cameras capturing their every move, the overnight date gives them a chance to privately get to know one another — and take things to the next level.<\/p>\n
While the Fantasy Suites have become known for their hot and heavy hook ups, some Bachelor stars decided to skip the sex part of things. Whether it\u2019s a decision they made out of consideration for other contestants or a just personal preference, these members of Bachelor Nation say they kept it PG in the Fantasy Suites.<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s what went down for these Bachelor stars\u2026<\/p>\n
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1. <\/strong>Sean Lowe<\/strong><\/p>\n When Sean Lowe was The Bachelor in 2013, he decided that he wasn\u2019t going to go all the way with any of his final three women in the Fantasy Suites. Instead, he says he used the time to get to know the ladies without the cameras around.<\/p>\n \u201cThe bottom line was that I wasn\u2019t going to have sex with any of the remaining three women that week. I wanted to use that night, alone, without any distractions, to really connect with the women. Plus, I wanted to know how they\u2019d act when the cameras weren\u2019t rolling,\u201d Sean wrote in his book \u201cFor The Right Reasons.\u201d<\/p>\n During the finale, Sean popped the question to his now-wife Catherine and the pair have been together ever since.<\/p>\n 2. Emily Maynard<\/strong><\/p>\n Emily Maynard was the first Bachelorette to completely skip all three of her Fantasy Suite dates. At the time, Emily decided that she wanted to abstain from her overnight dates in order to be a good role model for her young daughter. While she didn\u2019t hook up with any of her final three suitors, contestant Sean Lowe once claimed that Emily secretly met up with all three men later.<\/p>\n \u201cShe said, \u2018Listen, I\u2019m only going to do this with you.\u2019 We’re going to look like we\u2019re going to wrap up the date, but then we\u2019re going to go to the Fantasy Suite and we can just hang out. And so, that’s exactly what we did\u2026We spent four hours with no cameras and so I\u2019m thinking, \u2018If she\u2019s only doing it with me, then she must want to choose me.\u2019 Of course it was that same week she sent me home. And I found out she did it with the other guys too,\u201d Sean told Dish Nation.<\/p>\n 3. Trista Sutter<\/strong><\/p>\n Trista Sutter served as the first ever Bachelorette in the franchise and almost a decade after her season wrapped, she implied that she didn\u2019t have sex with any of her final three. On X (formerly Twitter), Trista explained that the suites weren\u2019t all about hooking up.<\/p>\n \u201cFantasy Suite isn\u2019t all about sexual fantasies as it may imply. In my mind, it was more about getting 1 on 1 time without cameras.Sooo impt!\u201d Trista wrote.<\/p>\n Trista ended up getting engaged to Ryan Sutter and the couple are still together to this day.<\/p>\n 4. Matt James<\/strong><\/p>\n When it came time for the Fantasy Suite, former Bachelor Matt James didn\u2019t hook up with any of his three finalists — Rachael Kirkconnell, Michelle Young and Bri Springs. Looking back after the show wrapped, Matt explained that he simply wanted to get to know them better.<\/p>\n \u201cI can\u2019t speak for anybody but myself, but I think the women appreciated it. Because I did learn things about them that I hadn\u2019t gathered — that I don\u2019t think I would have learned if I hadn\u2019t used that time to really dive deeper into something that they might not have been comfortable talking about on camera,\u201d he told WSJ Magazine.<\/p>\n 5. Becca Tilley<\/strong><\/p>\n When Becca Tilley signed on for Chris Soules\u2019 season of The Bachelor, she was still a virgin. When she made it to the Fantasy Suite, many fans questioned whether Chris had taken her virginity. On X (formerly Twitter), Becca shot down rumors that the pair had hooked up.<\/p>\n \u201cOh snapppp! Gonna take a lot more than a great day and a fantasy suite, yall!\u201d Becca wrote.<\/p>\n 6. Madison Prewett<\/strong><\/p>\n When Madison Prewett joined Peter Weber\u2019s season of The Bachelor, she knew she wanted to abstain from sex until marriage. She made it all the way to Peter\u2019s final three before telling him she didn\u2019t plan on having sex — and didn\u2019t want him to have sex with the other women either. While Peter acknowledged her request, he didn\u2019t agree to it and ended up hooking up with the other women.<\/p>\n \u201cHe couldn’t understand why I was so worried about what had happened in his other relationships and why that should affect ours. I looked at him bleakly and responded, \u2018I just can’t fathom on my engagement day, you get down on one knee and propose to me when six days before that you were intimate with someone else,\u2019\u201d Madison wrote in her book \u201cMade For This Moment.\u201d<\/p>\n Madison and Peter had a heavy conversation during their own Fantasy Suite date, where Peter revealed he had been intimate with other women. Madison ended up walking away from the date — but Peter still gave her a rose the next day.<\/p>\n![](\"https:\/\/images.toofab.com\/image\/00\/5by4\/2023\/08\/30\/0091d5ab98da42188eae51ca2d83e8d4_xs.jpg\")
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