Pamela Anderson's ex Adil Rami blasts model claiming he has evidence that proves he was not 'violent towards her'October 15, 2020
FRENCH footballer Adil Rami has again denied he was violent to Pamela Anderson after she branded him a "monster" who was living a "double life".
The former Marseille and Sevilla centre-back claimed he can "prove" he wasn't violent to the Baywatch actress with "videos and photos".
Rami, 34, who now plays for Portuguese side Boavista, denied domestic abuse while speaking to French newspaper Le Figaro on the launch of his new book Autopsy.
He said: "I know what you wanted to do by accusing me of that. When someone speaks first on social media, they feel like they are telling the absolute truth.
"She wanted to crush me. She never filed a complaint because none of that ever happened.
"I have videos and photos that can disprove what she said. It's over and I no longer want to be related to her."
Rami, part of France's 2018 World Cup winning squad, defended himself after Pamela made the allegations in a disturbing post on her Instagram post last June.
Pamela said she was "scammed" by the footballer, saying Rami had "hurt" and "threatened" her many times.
She also claimed that she hired a bodyguard because he "scares" her.
The 53-year-old said throughout the relationship he was controlling and alleged he had cheated with his ex Sidonie Biémont.
The Barb Wire actress also shared a video of herself having her hands bandaged after Rami allegedly "crushed them".
Rami has previously denied her allegations as "completely false" and said he was "incapable of doing such things".
Pammie and Rami had a tumultuous relationship having previously split in September 2018 after she turned down his marriage proposal.
But the pair re-kindled their romance in March 2019, reportedly against the advice of the her pals, who were concerned by Rami's behaviour, before splitting in June.
Underneath a black-and-white photo of the couple, she wrote: “The last (more than 2 years) of my life have been a big lie.
“I was scammed…led to believe we were in a big love, I’m devastated to find out in the last few days, that he was living a double life.
“He used to joke about other players, who had girlfriends down the street in apartments close to their wives, he called those men monsters.
“But this is worse. He lied to all. How is it possible to control two women’s hearts and minds like this. I’m sure there were others.
"He is the monster."
Pammie included a reference to the National Domestic Violence Hotline in her post, writing: “How could I have helped so many people @ndvhofficial and not been wise enough or able to help myself.”
The actress had lived in Marseilles with the footballer, but branded him a “monster”, “sociopath” and a “narcissist” in a series of explosive posts on Instagram.
Canadian-born model Pamela also said she had hired security to protect her because she is “scared” of Rami who she claims has “threatened me many times.”
She wrote: “I will leave France now. He has tried all. He has sent flowers, letters – I did not accept.
“He showed up to my hotel. Security took him away. I have a body guard because he scares me.
“He has hurt me and threatened me many times”
The former Playboy cover star also detailed the France international’s allegedly controlling behaviour towards her.
'HIS LIES, HIS EXCUSES'
She wrote: “I don’t think I’ll recover easily from this. I am not a stupid girl. I felt many times his lies, his excuses.
“But we were together every day – unless I went away to work.
“This was always hard because he did not trust me?
“He was very insecure? He wanted me next to him always or vidéo every location I was?, with who?
“I learned to accept this as normal. And even found myself asking him the same ridiculous questions?”
Pamela said the footballer phoned her from “multiple numbers” and emailed her daily after announcing their split as he begged her to return to France.
Pals said in the months following the split that Pamela was "bouncing back" as she escaped the "toxic" relationship.
"I guess a broken heart is an easy way to lose weight. But her heart will heal," a source said.
Rami was dropped from Solidarité Femmes – a domestic violence charity he represented – following the allegations.
Elsewhere in his recent interview, Rami blamed his lifestyle for not having a more successful football career – saying "too much going out, too many girls and I didn't pay attention to my weight".
The footballer was sacked from Marseille in August 2019 – not long after his split with Pamela – for "gross misconduct" after skipping training to take part in a reality TV show.
He said: "People don't know the real reasons for my leaving. I still can't reveal them, but one day they will know the truth
"The issue is still in court. They fired me without just cause and justice will do its job."
HOW YOU CAN GET HELP
Women's Aid has this advice for victims and their families:
- Always keep your phone nearby.
- Get in touch with charities for help, including the Women’s Aid live chat helpline and services such as SupportLine.
- If you are in danger, call 999.
- Familiarise yourself with the Silent Solution, reporting abuse without speaking down the phone, instead dialing “55”.
- Always keep some money on you, including change for a pay phone or bus fare.
- If you suspect your partner is about to attack you, try to go to a lower-risk area of the house – for example, where there is a way out and access to a telephone.
- Avoid the kitchen and garage, where there are likely to be knives or other weapons. Avoid rooms where you might become trapped, such as the bathroom, or where you might be shut into a cupboard or other small space.
If you are a victim of domestic abuse, SupportLine is open Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday from 6pm to 8pm on 01708 765200. The charity’s email support service is open weekdays and weekends during the crisis – [email protected]
Women’s Aid provides a live chat service available. from 10am to noon.
You can also call the freephone 24-hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247.
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