My boyfriend keeps giving me the cold shoulder but I want to have a sex life | The SunJanuary 31, 2023
DEAR DEIDRE: WE only have sex once every two or three months – but how can that be right?
There’s not even been a proper kiss between us in the past six months.
I am 23 and my boyfriend is 25. We have been together for just over a year and apart from the lack of sex, everything is going well.
I have tried to talk to him about it but each time I bring it up he says, “Why does it always come back to sex with you?” I don’t think I am being unreasonable.
If I try to initiate anything with him, he just says he’s tired or doesn’t feel well.
I feel bad about this, but feel I need sex.
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DEIDRE SAYS: It’s pretty unrealistic for him to expect you rarely to have sex.
Tell your boyfriend you want to understand why he has lost interest and help him.
My support pack Reviving A Man’s Sex Drive will get this back on track.
Meanwhile, give him kisses and cuddles to maintain intimacy, even if it doesn’t lead to sex.
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