I think I got with my partner too quickly as I feel more like his mother

I think I got with my partner too quickly as I feel more like his mother

December 7, 2018

I moved in with him and his parents after just a month together and his mother did everything for him.

Now we’ve got our own place and I have to do everything.

Sex is rubbish too. I was raped years ago by a guy I was dating which still affects me and I don’t find my partner attractive any more.

He’s put on weight and makes no effort to look good. We’re 29 – too young to give up like this.

DEIDRE SAYS: Tell him you’re unhappy. Say he has to stop treating you like his skivvy if your relationship is to last.

Draw up a list of chores and get him to sign up to the ones he will take on. Old issues often come up when we settle into what we hope will be a long relationship.

Find understanding for the aftermath of your rape through Rape Crisis at rapecrisis.org.uk, or on 0808 802 9999.

Plan healthy meals together and take up walking or running together to tone up his figure and strengthen your relationship

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