I slept with my girlfriend's brother, now I can't stop thinking about him

Sex with him was so good that now I am confused about who it is I want.

I am a 24-year-old guy, my girlfriend is 23 and her brother is 22.

I have been with my girlfriend for two years and we are happy together but I just cannot stop thinking about her brother.

We all hang out with the same group of friends and, last Saturday, one of our mates was having a big party for his 30th birthday at our local pub.

I planned to go with my girl and her brother but on the evening she had a migraine and felt too ill to go. So I ended up going with her brother.

It was a great party with loads of free drink. The music was good and everyone was dancing. I found myself dancing near my girlfriend’s brother.

I have always got on well with him but that night I noticed how sexy he looks. At the end of the evening I walked back to their house with him.

He and my girlfriend both live with their parents and I had promised her that I would go back there after the party as we were going out together the next day.

When we got there my girlfriend was fast asleep so I left her and went downstairs for a last drink with her brother.

We were sitting on the sofa chatting and having a drink and then suddenly we were kissing. We did not plan it, it just happened.

One thing led to another and we had sex. I have never had sex with another man before but it was mind-blowing.

Afterwards, we both said how good it was but that it had to be a one-off and we agreed that my girlfriend must never find out.

I have always classed myself as straight but I have fallen in love with him and my head is totally messed up.

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CONTRASTING sex drives in couples can stem from a genuine biological difference but they can also mask other issues.

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DEIDRE SAYS: It is not unusual to be attracted to a partner’s sibling.

Taking it further, though, is usually disastrous.

If you try to repeat the experience, you are likely to lose your girlfriend but not end up with her brother either.

You have always thought of yourself as straight but you are sexually attracted to both of them.

This could mean that you are in fact bisexual and it would help you sort out your confusion if you learn to understand your sexuality better.

My e-leaflet on Bisexual Issues explains where to get help.

You realise that what happened with your girlfriend’s brother must not happen again but it could well mean that she is not the right one for you.

Make sure you’re not alone with her brother while you decide what to do.

You and she can both find another partner but she can’t replace her brother.

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