I might cheat on my wife as she's boring in bed and never wears sexy lingerie

I might cheat on my wife as she's boring in bed and never wears sexy lingerie

March 30, 2022

DEAR DEIDRE: SEX with my wife is so boring that I’m tempted to play away.

She never initiates it and when I come on to her, she says things like, “Do you want to do it now?”. A real turn-off.


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I’m 32 and she’s 30. We’ve been married for five years.

I’ve bought her sex toys but she never uses them unless I get them out.
She has loads of lingerie too but won’t put it on unless I suggest it.

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I love her and enjoy sex when we have it. I would like her to come on to me sometimes and be more adventurous.

The last thing I want to do is cheat but I am starting to seriously consider it.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Many couples have different sex drives and this can be problematic once the excitement of being in a new relationship inevitably wanes.

Your wife may be shy or inhibited, so focus on giving her the confidence to initiate lovemaking.

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