I can't move on after my partner cheated and had a baby with another woman

I can't move on after my partner cheated and had a baby with another woman

July 7, 2020

DEAR DEIDRE:  MY partner has had a baby with another girl.

I am 27 and he is 29. We’ve been together for three years, have a child together and I have a little girl from a previous relationship.

I love him but he cheated on me about a year ago.

It was just a short fling but the girl got pregnant. She is 19.

My partner says they only correspond about the baby, a little girl, but I’m so upset I often sit and cry. I can’t get over it.

He understands that I won’t accept this child as my stepdaughter, but am I being too hard?

Should I try actually to forgive him? Would that help us be happier and to move on?

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DEIDRE SAYS: It would, but for you to be able to forgive him you have to be confident he won’t cheat on you like this again and that he accepts responsibility for his behaviour.

Has he convinced you of that?

If so, try to see that your distress is not this baby’s fault, that every child deserves a loving dad, and you will feel more confident if you can welcome her into your home.

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