My fiance has gone 'psycho' over the colour of my wedding dress and everyone is saying the same thing | The Sun

DESIGNING a wedding dress is often something most women have imagined doing since being little. 

Whether it's using a specific designer, or choosing the dream colour – every woman wants it just right for their special day.

However, with wedding planning comes lots of opinions – and many may be unwanted. 

And this bride-to-be knows this all too well, after being left heartbroken by her husband-to-be. 

The anonymous woman, 27, shared her dilemma on Reddit's Off My Chest forum.

And in the post, she revealed her fiancé wants her to wear red to their wedding because she's no longer a virgin.

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In the post, she titled it: “My husband to be wants everyone to know I’m not ‘pure.’”

Then she continued to write: “It’s exactly what the title says. I’ve been with my fiancé for six years and engaged for the past eight months. 

“I’ve been doing most of the wedding planning but my fiancé, let’s just call him Ryan, will give his input here and there. 

“So about a month ago Ryan out of nowhere said he was talking to some of his coworkers and thinks that I shouldn’t wear a white dress. 

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“This was totally weird to me. 

“Ryan is a very artistic guy, so I figured this was more about how the photos would turn out or something along those lines, but I’m set on wearing white. 

“I told him this and I could see that he was annoyed but he let it go. 

“Two weeks ago I finally picked and paid for my dress and this caused a huge argument.”

She explained that Ryan was annoyed and asked to see the dress she picked. 

The woman continues: “But I said no because I wanted it to be a surprise for our wedding day. 

“He asked me to at least tell him what colour it was, and when I said white, he threw a fit. I honestly do not see why this was a big deal, almost everyone wears white on their wedding day. 

“When I asked him what colour he thought I’d be wearing, he told me I should wear red.

“Again, this was super weird to me. I asked him why I would wear red to our wedding, and he told me that brides only wear white when they are pure.”

The woman and Ryan started dating when she was 21 and he had just turned 20. 

She continues: “He was a virgin when we met, and I only had one other person who was my ex-boyfriend of four years throughout high school.

“This caused a lot of problems.”

The first year of their relationship they nearly called it quits due to his insecurities. 

He asked me to at least tell him what colour it was, and when I said white, he threw a fit. I honestly do not see why this was a big deal, almost everyone wears white on their wedding day.

She continues: “After that first year, it was never a problem again until now I guess.

"He went to his mum about all of this thinking she would convince me but she’s on my side. 

“So two nights ago, Ryan, his mum and I stood in our living room and argued about my sex life being shown in a dress. 

“His mum stated that he is no longer a virgin either so maybe he should wear red too and he burst out crying. 

“Ryan is still stating that me wearing white would be deceiving all of the guests and that it is different for guys. 

“This all has honestly made me question even marrying this man. 

“I don’t know if it’s just because everything is so fresh but I’m really disgusted by him.”

She then finished the post by writing: “He’s not even religious so I know this is just about him still thinking about me losing my virginity at 18 before I even knew him. 

“I just needed to rant to anyone about his psycho this is.”

Two weeks ago I finally picked and paid for my dress and this caused a huge argument

The post – which was reshared on Reddit's Wedding Shaming forum – amassed over 1,400 comments sharing their thoughts.

One replied: "Look, if he is this insecure after six years together, things are not going to improve. Is he going to mention your 'impurity' in his wedding speech? 

“Is he going to try to leverage this in your marriage to get what he wants? Is he going to demand paternity tests for your children?

“I'd seriously consider what you are signing up for. Dude sounds messed up [as f**k].”'

Another added: “Girl, run! Disrespectful, petty, immature, to name a few red flags.'

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“Keep the mom, chuck the man,' another added. 'Why is it the guests' business if she's a virgin?”

A third said: “Consider yourself dodging a bullet. 'He is not mature enough to be married.”

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