I'm shunned at school gates & in supermarkets for dressing sexy – hotphobia is a real thing, I fight it by looking great | The Sun

June 12, 2023

A MUM has claimed that she is continuously shunned and vilified by other parents for being ‘too good looking.’

Sabine Roll-Cohen, 40, says she is a victim of what is known as ‘hotphobia’, a trend popularised on social media, referring to someone who is victimised because of their good looks.

But Sabine refuses to layer up on the school run to please the judgemental mums.

“I like to wear small shorts, or a low dress, or a tiny crop top, I like to feel sexy,” personal shopper Sabine says.

“Every woman should look after themselves. I don’t go out much anymore, so the school run is my reason to get dressed, so why not wear a nice outfit?

“The other mums don’t talk to me when I look nice, they just turn their noses up.

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“But when I am dressed in my jogging bottoms, they decide to speak to me, it’s strange.”

Sabine, from North London, says she was snubbed at a children’s birthday party when she arrived in a belly baring crop top and skinny jeans but doesn’t believe she was dressing inappropriately.

“I was at this party with my six year-old son, but I only knew one other mum there,” she explains.

“I was wearing a little floral crop top and some skinny jeans which showed off my perky bum and I thought I looked great.

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“But every single mum at the party, apart from my friend, ignored me.

“I asked my friend why no one was talking to me and she said ‘Maybe you wear the wrong outfits.’

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“I think they must be jealous as I do have a good body. I’m size eight, 5ft 7, I don’t go to the gym and I don’t have to watch what I eat.

“A lot of these ladies are bigger and less sexy after having children and I think it annoys them that I look so good. If jealousy is an illness, I hope they all get better soon.”

Sabine also admits to getting dirty looks while out shopping, thanks to her slinky ensembles.

“One time I wore a satin slip dress with a slit up the leg down the shops,” she says.

“The wind blew the dress up as I was walking down the high street and that got me some bad looks, but I don’t care.

“I’ve worn the same thing on the school run too.

“The girls in my son’s class always compliment my outfits, they think I look great. Sadly their mums don’t feel the same but what can I do?

“I’m not going to change who I am to please them.”

Sabine loves fashion but she’s bored of the way the other mums dress and wishes they would all be a bit more daring with their outfits.

She says, “People dress nice where I live, there’s lots of cashmere and classy outfits, but the women don’t tend to be sexy.

“I love wearing see through outfits, off the shoulder numbers and short skirts. I love fashion and this has always been my style. I’m 40 but I think it’s age appropriate.

“I know I’m not 20 anymore, but I still feel young.”

Thankfully there’s one person who does appreciate Sabine’s sexy style and that’s her husband of seven years, Beto.